Steps for Making Death Announcements

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A checklist of steps to follow when making death announcements on various platforms.

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Announcing a loved one's passing with care

The death of someone dear to you is never easy. During this difficult period, one of the most important responsibilities you may face is notifying others about your loved one's passing. This can feel overwhelming. Taking a step-by-step approach can help provide some comfort.

Making proper death announcements allows you to share the news in a respectful manner while honoring your loved one's memory. It gives family, friends, and associates a chance to grieve and make plans to offer condolences.

Let's walk through the key steps for making these notifications with grace.

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Make a notification plan

Before making any announcements, it can be helpful to make a plan for who needs to be notified and in what order. A simple list or spreadsheet can make this process smoother.

Start by listing out immediate family members and very close friends. These are the people you'll want to notify first, likely with a personal phone call.

Next, make a list of everyone else you'll need to notify, such as:

  • Other relatives and friends
  • Your loved one's current or former colleagues and employer
  • Any organizations, clubs, or groups they belonged to
  • Their doctor, lawyer, accountant, and other professionals

Decide how you'll notify each group - via email, phone calls, online memorials, and published obituaries.

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Notifying immediate family and closest friends

These first notifications are the most difficult. When possible, make these announcements over the phone or in person out of respect.

Have a call script ready with key details like:

  • Your relationship to the deceased
  • Their name and age at passing
  • The date they passed away
  • General cause of death if known
  • Any immediate next steps (e.g. funeral arrangements)

Allow time in these conversations for crying, recounting memories, and simply processing the news together.

After you've notified the inner circle, you can move to making broader announcements through other channels for extended family, friends, and contacts.

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Create an online memorial page

In today's digital age, creating an online memorial is one of the best ways to announce a passing while allowing others to leave condolences, share stories, and grieve collectively.

Services like EverLoved, GatheringUs, and Memorial Post allow you to easily build a digital memorial site with:

  • An obituary and life story
  • Photo and video galleries
  • Virtual guestbook for messages
  • Service details and RSVPs

You can share this page via email, social media, and other digital channels. It serves as a central hub for death announcements, memories, and funeral arrangements.

Be sure to have a plan for monitoring the page in the days and weeks after launching. Thank those who leave kind messages and memories when you can.

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Notifying extended family and acquaintances

After immediate family and very close friends have been personally notified, it's time to make announcements to your wider circle.

An email announcement is typically appropriate for extended family members, old friends, and personal acquaintances. The email can direct contacts to the online memorial page for updated information.

You may also want to post a notification on your social media accounts. A thoughtful post can reach many people at once and let them know where to go to learn more or leave condolences.

The tone should remain simple and respectful. Share key details like:

  • Your loved one's name
  • Their date of birth and passing
  • A brief, poignant quote or memorial line
  • A link to the online memorial page

For any contact closer than an acquaintance, a personalized email or direct message is preferable to a broad social media post.

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Notifying employers, organizations, and businesses

Your loved one likely had professional relationships and affiliations that should be respectfully notified as well.

For any recent employers, call the human resources department to inform them. They may need details like date of passing and if there are any benefits or policies to address.

For organizations like clubs, volunteer groups, or professional associations, you can reach out to the general contact listed online or in a directory.

With doctors, lawyers, accountants, and other professional service providers, call their office and leave the key details with a staff member. They'll note it in your loved one's file.

These notifications can often be relatively brief updates, providing just the name, date of passing, and an acknowledgment of your loved one's involvement.

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Publishing an obituary or death notice

In addition to personal notifications, publishing a death notice or obituary in local newspapers can be important.

An obituary is a longer write-up honoring the deceased's life story and informing community members about their passing. Notices are shorter and focus just on key details like:

  • Name
  • Age
  • Date of death
  • Location of residence
  • Any service arrangements

Even in the age of digital memorials, an obituary helps permanently enshrine a record of your loved one's life, available in newspaper archives. It shows your respect and signals their importance to the community.

When writing the obituary, be sure to check the publisher's length limits and formatting requirements. You may want to have a few close family members review it, too.

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Managing responses with dignity

After announcements are made, you may receive an influx of calls, messages, visitors, and more as people react with condolences and remembrances.

While the outpouring of support can provide some comfort, it may also renew waves of sadness during an already tender time. Managing this with grace is important.

Have a plan for handling responses, whether that's compiling messages in one place, delegating a family member to answer calls, or simply setting aside dedicated time daily to reflect on them.

Remember, you don't owe anyone an immediate response. Focus first on your own emotional needs and that of your closest family. When you do respond, keep entries brief yet heartfelt.

Take comfort that these gestures, no matter how overwhelming at times, come from a place of showing their love and respect.

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Wrapping up - Keeping loved ones close

Making death announcements is an important responsibility during an incredibly trying chapter of life. Though logistically complicated at times, following these steps can help lift at least a small burden.

When done with dignity, these announcements serve as an opportunity to memorialize someone's spirit and share the gift of their life with others one final time.

Remember to be kind to yourself during this transition. The emotions may feel overwhelming, but by taking it step-by-step, you'll find your path to continuing your loved one's legacy.

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